The duties of parents are obvious: they must be perfect. This is not difficult either, everyone knows that parents are supernatural beings, loving, caring and selfless. They have inexhaustible patience and a thousand ideas how they can help their offspring to get out of boredom and out of trouble.
That is true! With one small reservation: Parents are not always like that. In every mother and father there is also an ordinary person with strengths and weaknesses, with quirks and moods. It is high time to free ourselves from exaggerated expectations of parents.
Parents can fail, as we all know, and on several levels on a daily basis. The blunders they make are as numerous as the sins of omission on their account. Bad grades, sibling rivalry, allergies, sloppiness – there are countless opportunities to develop a guilty conscience. And if one day it turns out that a child doesn't find his way in life without problems, everyone knows where to look for the blame: With the parents, of course! After all, they have taken care of the child for years – or not enough. No wonder many parents are under enormous pressure. Nevertheless, most people cling to an idealized image of parents. Why is that?






